Life with the Shirley Family

Life with the Shirley Family

Friday, October 26, 2012

Chocolate, Yearbook ads, socks and an empty box!!

 So what is going on in my life you may wonder....or maybe not!  Fall is always a busy, birthday, fundraising time of year for me.  And this year, despite saying I would not, we ended up selling chocolate bars.  They are not too hard to sell at least.  They are only $1.00 and most people like chocolate.  There were only a few houses that said no without giving us a donation.  A donation means more chocolate bars for Nathan to eat (since Camden doesn't like chocolate!). 
 
I am also the year book advisor this year at the boys' school and Nathan is on the yearbook staff.  I decided that to get the most ads, I would take the yearbook staff kids out and let them sell.  So I have been going to all the businesses around town selling ads.  I feel like everyplace I walk into I am asking them to buy an ad! 
 
And of course Nathan's birthday was a week or so ago and he got birthday money.  He is really into LSU right now (I am really not sure how this happened since no one in our family has even been to Louisiana), so he has ordered socks, a shirt, a pin and a hat.  He has been watching the mailbox everyday looking for his loot to complete his LSU outfit.  The socks came in, along with his black and green Nike elite socks, but he has really been waiting for his hat and pin.

Well today the box showed up on our doorstep.  I left it alone so he could open it.  I was in the other room when I heard, "There's nothing in it!"  And he was right.  Nothing.  Not that they had left out the hat, but the packing slip was in there or the pin had slipped under, well, there was nothing for the pin to slip under.  It was just an empty box.  Some kind of Happy Birthday!!  At least the customer service people were understanding.  They promised to ship another box right away...and promised that it would have something in it this time :)
 
 



Monday, October 15, 2012

Nathan is 12 years old!!!






I want to say Happy Birthday to my oldest son today.  To say I can't believe he is 12 is an understatement and what I hear from others who have known him since before he was born.  But to think that 12 years have passed since I held that sweet, inquisitive baby in my arms.  To know such love.  It is hard to comprehend!



He is an amazing person.  Not perfect by any stretch as each day shows us; but willing to listen (eventually) about what he has done wrong and having the willingness to want to be a better person.  The one thing he totally excels in is being a great big brother.  He is patient with Camden and tries to teach Camden to do right.  Yes they fight, but not too often.  And I could see Nathan jumping in any situation to save or protect his brother.  Of course he also tries to keep him in line by making sure I know what he has done at school that was not quite right :) 
 
So in honor of brothers, I had to post a video of that card that Camden picked out for Nathan.  I really need to fear about being outnumbered by boys at my house! 

In addition to the card, Nathan also got to go to a preseason NBA exhibition game.  Chicken pot pie, apple pie, and mint chocolate chip ice cream cake made for a great pre-game dinner.  On his actual birthday he was treated to his own sushi roll!!  Nike elite socks, an LSU hoodie, Madden 13 Wii game, and the Avengers movie (along with a little money from other relatives) rounded out some nice presents for his birthday. 

So one more year until he is a teenager...I hope this is a LONG year!!

Sunday, October 14, 2012

California Big Trees



 
 

When we were in California this time, we were able to see the tall Redwook trees. After our time in San Francisco, we drove over the Golden Gate Bridge and headed to the John Muir Woods. The trees there were the tallest I have ever seen. It was like a sanctuary walking through the woods.  In fact there were signs asking us to be quiet.  We arrived there 2 hours before they closed, so the crowd was down. I was glad of this so that we didn't have to walk around crowds of people in order to see the trees. I took lots of pictures, but it is very hard to truly get a sense of the trees when they are so tall.  I would definitely recommend this as a stop to anyone going to that part of California.
 




Inside a fallen tree!

Sitting in front of a "slice" of a tree
 
 
 

Tuesday, October 9, 2012

The other side of the country

Having grown up in the east and loving to travel, I had fun seeing the sights of San Francisco.  I have been to San Fran before, but this was the first time we have been able to take the boys.  So we had a lot of fun touring Fisherman's Wharf, Pier 39, and of course drinking chocolate milkshakes at Ghiradelli's!  We were planning on walking the Golden Gate Bridge, but it was so foggy we couldn't even see the bridge; so we just drove over and went to the John Muir Woods to see the Redwood Trees.  Here are some pictures that showcase our fun day on the west side of America.

Pier 39 in San Francisco...a pier full of stores and a "home" for the sea lions.




The double decker carousel on the pier.

Alcatraz in the distance

Sea lions basking in the sun

 Standing in front of the famous sourdough bakery with bread in the shape of crabs and alligators...


...and eating clam chowder from one of their bread baskets!


Lots of views of San Franscico
 
San Fran is always cool or even cold...and people swim in the bay!!  Crazy!
Nothing is better than a chocolate milkshake from Ghirardelli!!
The best view we had of the Golden Gate Bridge...next time we will walk or run it!!

Friday, October 5, 2012

Getting over jet lag!

It is Friday night and I hope that tomorrow the jet lag is gone!  We arrived home from California Tuesday night at midnight and I have been on the go since!  With any luck, I will sleep in tomorrow morning and wake up refreshed.  Why California?  Dave is from there and we have not been back to visit family in about 4 years.  So we packed up the kids and boarded the plane and off we went for a 10 day trip.  Although is may be the land of the fruits and nuts, it is a very pretty land and we were able to see different parts of it while visiting family.  We traveled to the foothills and the valley; to the bay and the farmlands.  Lots of driving and lots of eating...everyone wanted to feed us!  It made for a fun visit. 

But first, the airport in Sacramento.  Camden outside of his "restaurant" at the airport.  He went in and told him what his name was!

Camden swimming in the foothills of the Sierra Nevada mountains. 
Nathan practicing his diving
Camden practicing his tractor driving with Uncle Bob
The manzanita tree with red bark.
Deer have black tails out in California
Hanging out with Gramma and Papa in the valley near the grape vineyards.

The children's museum in Lodi
Papa camp tent sleeping...a favorite for the boys.
Playing football...always fun on any coast!

Granny with the boys...celebrating early birthdays 

Dave with Gramps

 
Spending time with Dave's 90 year old Grandma Shirley at her house near more grape vineyards. 

Tuesday, September 18, 2012

God's Promises

 
 
A rainbow always reminds us that God keeps his promises!!!
 

 
These are two of God's promises enjoying themselves after the rain!

 
Nathan is trying to teach Camden how to play football.  Camden doesn't want to play if it is flag though, because he can't tackle! 

Sunday, September 16, 2012

Putting it all together

I like to finish things.  I may have lots of projects going at one time, but I finish them.  One thing that seems to take me a long time to finish when I get behind is my Bible study.  Last Fall I started a a study on Esther, Ezra/Haggai, and Nehemiah (actually 3 Precept studies).  The study lasted until Spring, but I just today finished all of it.  Right in time to be behind on starting Romans tomorrow!!!  I learned a lot through the year, but because it took me a few extra months to finish, I don't have a cohesive view of it all.  So I am attempting in this post to put together what I have learned. 

In Esther, the biggest thing I learned was to obey those in authority of us unless they are out of God's will; like when the king asked Vashti to parade at his banquet.  But when Esther obeyed Mordecai as her parental authority, and thus obeyed God, God protected her.  And always be willing to do the right thing.  God puts you where He wants you, for you to do the right thing.

Ezra was the priest of God who spearheaded rebuilding he temple.  He knew the Law just as we are to know the Word.  Because of that, he could finish the temple correctly.  When they finished, many of the people were sad because the temple was not as beautiful on the outside as Solomon's had been.  But others, who had not seen Solomon's temple, rejoiced greatly because they had finished the work.  What was exciting to know was that this temple would have more glory than Solomon's because Christ Himself would come into this temple!!  The glory of God would not just be behind the holy of holies, but in the temple where everyone could see Him!

I think the biggest thing I learned in the books of Ezra and Haggai came from Haggai 1 where God says to "Consider your ways".  The people had not finished the temple,but they had finished their houses.  Verse 4 says, "Is it time for you yourselves to dwell in your paneled houses while this house lies desolate?".  So many times I do for myself or my house, while neglecting the church.  I know the church is not the building, but I think I need to help keep up my church and not only think of my house's upkeep.  I need to think of paying off the debt of my church's building and not just focus on getting my house's finances in order.  I don't think that working on my house or my family's finances is wrong, but the church building I attend church service in should not be neglected.  Nor should I neglect the actual church, body of believers, to focus only on my family and home.

Nehemiah also focused on giving to the church in part of the book when it talked about the Levites and singers returning home from Jerusalem because they had not received the tithe...they had not been paid.  It is important for Christians to give their tithe.  If we don't, we will hinder the work of God in our church.

The other thing that I learned from Nehemiah involved goodness.  Nehemiah 5:19 says "Remember me, O my God, for good, according to all that I have done for this people".  I have a favorite quote by John Wesley that says, "Do all the good you can, in all the places you can, at all the times you can, to all the people you can, as long as you ever can."   I know that when talking about doing good, you have to be careful in where your emphasis lies.  You can't just do good for people in order to feel good about yourself.  And in only doing good without sharing Christ, you are not being the witness that you need to be for the Lord.  Having said that, we should do good.  All goodness comes from God and one of the fruit of the Spirit is goodness.  Nehemiah, in his governing of the Israelites, did good; especially for the poor who were in debt and enslaved.  He asked God to remember him for this goodness.  When our life is over and we stand before God, after first relying solely on Jesus as our way to heaven, what then will God say about us?  What rewards will He give us?  What good will He remember that we did?  In sharing Christ with a lost world, we also must share His goodness.  And the only way to share His goodness is to be good to other people. 

So that is how I have pulled my year of Bible study together.  I start Romans tomorrow.  I pray that I don't get as far behind on it as I did this past year.  But I am glad that in sticking with it, I was able to learn from these great men and women of the Old Testament.